TOuching~~

This video really changes the way you look at life and the person you love. I actually started to cry at the end of the video. Very touching. lol.. i love this!! it makes me so emotional! lol!! jeeez.. it makes me feel like crying! haha i would do this for my girl! lol..XDXD

Whoever said love is blind is dead wrong. Love is the only thing that lets us see each other with the remotest accuracy.

K..

Me goes lonely gain.all alone again.here i am without you, maybe it is our destiny that we can not be together.Love is simple.....Love is hard.....Love is something that breaks our heart.Memories is all that's left.I'm alone and i have to wait. I'm down but i have my faith.

Unfortunately, not every romantic relationship lives up to our early hope and dreams. You can be a truly wonderful man, but that doesnt mean it is right for you.

Cheers~~~

Trust

To be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved.”

If there's one thing we know to be true it's this...

Relationships cannot grow or have a chance of becoming happy if there's no trust.

"3 Ways to Build Trust"

Trust is often taken for granted when it comes to intimate relationships. We trust-- or don’t trust-- that the agreements we’ve made with one another will be kept. These may include staying faithful to one another, continuing to deepen your connection, or “being there” for each other no matter what among other possible agreements..

But when we really look at the day to day lives we lead with our partner, is there really a strong sense of trust?

Weaknesses in trust can range from intense to more subtle. Perhaps-- with no real evidence to indicate it-- you worry about your partner cheating on you or maybe you doubt he or she will love you if you let your true self show. It could be that you regularly expect that your love will not follow through on a promised project or task. No matter where on the spectrum lack of trust falls, it gets in the way of your relationship being as intimate as it could be.

Consider this illustration…..

Imagine you are 50 ft. up in the air on a climbing wall with nothing keeping you from falling except a harness, rope and your climbing partner—or belayer—who stands on the ground holding that rope. From the top of the wall you gaze down at the ground and begin to wonder: How sturdy is this rope that is holding me up? Will my belayer prevent me from falling and get me down safely? Needless to say, vulnerable feelings and just a little bit of fear may come rushing in.

It is up to your belayer to pay attention to what you are doing and to adjust the rope accordingly. It is also up to you, the climber, to trust that you will be eased gently down the wall to the ground when you have reached the top. A distracted belayer could mean not only a bumpy ride down the wall, but also your safety in jeopardy. At the same time, an untrusting climber could hang indefinitely on the wall refusing to move. It is literally a leap of faith when you let go of the holds and allow yourself to be lowered down. Climber and belayer must work together, stay present, and communicate clearly so that the climbing experience will be enjoyable and not end up an emergency room visit!

So it goes with intimate relationships. It is not uncommon for one or both people to feel vulnerable and wonder whether or not the other person will be there when needed. Without trust in one another, intimacy cannot grow and your relationship can become stuck.

Try these 3 ways for creating trust and intimacy with your partner….

1. Let go of the past.
Almost every one of us has had a past relationship that left us feeling wary of loving or trusting anyone again. Tune into your current situation and allow yourself to move on from those old hurts. This may require acknowledging the ways that the past comes up for you in the present. Breathe and remind yourself to let go of the past and focus on what’s currently going on.

2. Be yourself.

Sometimes we hide habits, tendencies, even desires that are important to us because we don’t trust that our partner will approve of them. We undercut intimacy by keeping this barrier up to hide what we think won’t be loved. In effect, we don’t feel lovable as our true selves. Make it a goal to appreciate yourself—“warts” and all—and then allow every part of you to be seen by your partner. Chances are your love will be more accepting than you think.

3. Listen and understand.

Just as communicating is vital to the climber and belayer, it is also important to anyone wanting to increase intimacy in a love relationship. When situations come up that challenge your trust in the other person, stop and ask him or her questions about what appears to be happening. It is likely that your perceptions are not accurate. Listen with an open heart and allow yourself to understand what is going on for the other person.

These 3 ways can help you begin to turn a relationship weak in trust into one where strong trust fosters deeper intimacy. It starts with letting go, loving yourself, and listening with an open heart.

IM DEPRESSED!!!
IM FREAKING BORED NOW!!!
IM REALLY PISSED NOW!!!
SUPER ANNOYED!!!

Gosh, how I wish I can actually explain how I feel now.
Everyone is enjoying themselves while Im stuck at home, how great? Very!
playing games, having dinner together,playing basketball,skating.
Those are what I want and should be doing today!
Although I can like have my little karaoke session on my own in the toilet, pretend Im skating where I am actually roller blading, or even pretend to have a happy dinner, but whats the point?
Its sad!

Frankly speaking, am I really that childish? Immature? Silly? Gullible? Stupid in a way?
Or even sound and look likes a kid?
Please please do let me know. I BADLY want to know this.

Sometimes I wonder am I really 18 this year or I am actually really 8 years old like how I always like to joke around.
Or is it my joke came true?
Sigh
Its just sad.
I am a college student and I have to behave like a kindergarten or primary school kids.
Hey I bet some primary kids are already going out, running around with their cool gadgets like hand phones, PSP, Ipods or MP3 player, branded clothes and everything.
Kids nowadays are luckier than I am eh? *ENVY*

Yeah I know some of you might think, its for my own good to stay home and behave myself.
Yeah I agree in a way but how would you feel if u are over protected?
That totally sucks.
I should have a limit or at least a number or privacy and freedom at the age of 18.
Not only at the age of 18, everyone deserves to have their own rights to freedom!!

I have limits too and its not that I dont study, I dont work hard or I go out everyday.
I know my limits; I even arrange everything, plan everything and inform every single detail about my outings whenever I have one.
Its so unfair!!! I did all Im suppose to do!

Everything is so well protected, where goes the challenges in life?
How would people grow and gain knowledge from something new since everything is well measured? How will you learn?

And why are my parents specially over protected over me?
I dont mind having strict parents but over protective is way too crazy for me to accept.

OKOK...stop My granfather/mother storyy here~~~

ME And The Other Half Ended~~**

Everything happen for a reason?

But how IF I can't find the reason at all?
How IF there is just no proper or explainable reason?
Or Am I going insane?

Sometimes...

The only feeling that you actually feel...
The only word that describe how you feel...
Is solely...
Regrets...

But when you actually do feel such way...
It's just too late to do anything...
There's no turning back...
No way(s) of reversing things done...
Too late to even feel regret!

It's ENd Tonight~~

Its Over~

The only solution to this,
Is to just move on,
To move forward and forget bout the past...

Sherynn..cheerss~~WE're still fren ya~~

I m FIne here~~

That’s it for the moment.
Till then, hope for the best for everyone!
May God bless everyone!
(^_^)

Stand by your man — that's just something you naturally do. Once you've committed to a relationship, you are a constant companion who enjoys the comfort and stability that comes from being a couple. Not quick to judge, accuse, or think the worst, you have a lot of trust (in him and in yourself), and you rarely worry about where he is or who he's with.

For you, mutual respect is of utmost importance. You are comfortable and confident in your own skin, making you a great pillar of strength in all your relationships. Whether he's striving to climb a mountain or land a promotion, you have his back. Best part is, you know he's got yours too.


What Kind of Girlfriend Are You?

Today is definately my BIG day..

The day I was born 18 years ago. Time flies.
~ HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MYSELF. =P

Yes, like many are saying, i am getting old. =(
But definitely young at heart!!
I finally reach the last year of my teen life.
Wooh...so fast!!! (^_^)

Officially I am legal now. HEHE. No more sneaking into the cinema......

and..

Happy BIrthday to Britney spears as well.

Its definitely a great birthday for me this year.
Last day before my birthday, I  went out with my dear to One Utama to celebrate because my dear will off to Ipoh (her Hometown)..+ =)

BUt the day was  fun.

I ate without paying. YAHOO. My food was yunmmy~~

And today i went out to station one with 7 of my friends.

It's really cool too see my high school friends
In short, all my friends and people who matters to me,
Gathered together for my birthday.
(Well I do hope they really intended to celebrate with me.
They better be! =P
And of course to have fun at the same time…)
Thanks a lot again people!!! Heart you people ~

I got a present that I never expected to receive. It was definitely one shocking thing and its something priceless I should say.(GLory GLory Man United)..HEHE. Thank you so much.

Last but not least, to all my frens, THANKS A LOT FOR EVERYTHING!!!

But anyway, although those who I expected to come didnt make it, I still managed to have lots of fun. I thought it would be a boring and plain outing but things turned out pretty good indeed.
I appreciate it a lot!
Love all of u guys lots..
Thanks for making my day memorable.

I will post the pictures if i received it from my friends..

Sorry, not much elaboration in this post.
Rushing to get this done actually.
Will elaborate more during the weekend.

I m really tired..

ONce again...thank you....

Cheers---------